Forget Exercise – MOVE MORE!!

“Sitting is the new smoking.” Have you heard that expression lately? When I see so many people spending hours watching Netflix and YouTube videos while having meals delivered to their door, it reminds me of the scenes in the Pixar film Wall-E just sitting with their feet up, a milkshake in one hand, and a remote control in the other. It turns out that high levels of inactivity contribute to poor physical, emotional, and mental health and there’s an easy fix – simply move more.

Exercise is like a healthy diet. We all know we need to do it, and it easily ends up turning into some sort of chore and part of our to-do list. Did you know that someone who hits their gym quota just to spend the rest of the time sitting at a desk or driving or other sedentary activities can still be at heath risk for inactivity? It’s about having consistent periods of movement through the day. We are at a point that many of our daily habits and routines do not incorporate sufficient movement to promote optimal cellular function as well as mental and emotional wellness. It didn’t happen by accident, but it’s time to pay attention. Considering the idea of increased physical activity all day long rather than just isolated periods specifically dedicated to exercise will get us off to a good start.

Not only are we not moving, our movements tend to be quite limited, activating only a small set of muscles and postures. For example, these day, most of us don’t even have to turn our bodies and necks when reversing the car because we have cameras rear view cameras in the car to look at instead. Move more literally means more kinds of movements too, not just more of what we’re already doing. When was the last time you sat on the floor? Sitting on the floor and standing up from sitting on the floor engages a whole set of movement patterns in your body. It may be uncomfortable, but that’s just because we don’t do it often enough. Movement includes wrist and ankle rolls while laying in bed, moving your head from side to side in the shower, side stepping to the kitchen, spinning in circles and shaking your booty to your favorite tunes. Movement is crawling on the floor with your small child. It’s reaching, kneeling, hanging, squatting, twisting, jumping, pushing, pulling, balancing, and anything you can imagine. Fidgeting is movement too, so if you’re a fidgeter, then go for it! It’s actually much easier than we make it out to be when the gold standard has been sessions at the gym for so long.

In a 2012 study entitled, “Lack of Exercise is Major Cause of Chronic Disease” The Comprehensive published in the Journal of Physiology, researchers cite lack of exercise as a major cause of chronic disease. This includes heart disease, diabetes, obesity, fatty liver disease, cancer, insulin resistance, metabolic syndrome, osteoporosis, osteoarthritis, stroke, pain, constipation, and even anxiety and depression. Notice that this is not limited to physical health problems.; mental and emotional health is equally at risk in relation to lack of movement. In this study, inactivity was cited as the PRIMARY cause of 35 different conditions. Physical activity and movement are related to strength, balance, and flexibility. Movement is good for us any way you look at it. My favorite quote from the study is: “Physical activity is the primary prevention of physical inactivity.” This really means that it’s not enough to know that we need to do it, we actually have to do it – get out there and MOVE!

Movement increases focus, attention, clarity, and even creativity. When I was in graduate school a few years ago, it was the first time that I consciously recognized that I could think much better when moving. Sitting at my desk with all my books and notes just wasn’t making the ideas flow. I expect this may be the case for many of us. Have you ever gone for a walk and been filled with ideas or inspiration? Or had unexpectedly interesting and deep conversations while hiking? Even now, a huge part of my writing process is heading out for a walk to allow my ideas to percolate and develop before sitting down with my notebook. That may explain my history of “productive procrastination”. Those times when I would have a need to clean the whole house prior to writing a paper or doing a project. The movement in combination with the clearing of the space allows room for ideas to flow. Apparently, Charles Darwin did this too. He created a path around his property known as the Thinking Path. He would even go to the degree of evaluating how many circuits he would need to do to solve a particular problem. The harder the problem, the more walking it would require. This is particularly interesting because it’s contrary to our typical defaults today. When our problems get harder, we tend to spend less time moving and more time at the office. Is it possible that we’ve gotten it all mixed up?

In addition to Darwin, there’s plenty of historical wisdom connected to physical activity. Hippocrates is known to have said, “Walking is a man’s best medicine” around 450 B.C. and also related both food and physical activity to health in equal parts. In ancient India, it was believed that a sedentary life disturbed equilibrium in the body. Additionally, Benjamin Franklin believed that rigorous physical activity and fresh air led to the prevention of disease. He is known to have worked out with dumbbells to increase both heart rate and body temperature for the purpose of maintaining vital health, a great example to follow.

We know we need to move more, now what? One way is to consciously choose things that are inconvenient. This can be challenging when we are bombarded by messages that convenience is the answer to our problems. Walk 5-10 minutes to pick up some lunch instead  of using a delivery app on your smart phone. Cut vegetables instead of buying them already cut. Take the stairs instead of the escalator. Not to say that all modern conveniences are inherently bad, they can allow for more time to spend with family or other things in our life that we enjoy. However, it’s important to be mindful and consider these trade-offs and how they are impacting our overall movement levels. Also, we need to stop making time an excuse and just do it. In my opinion, the question of time also involves reflecting on our relationship with technology. Technology is supposed to save us time, yet it ends up consuming much more than we anticipate; yet another contradiction in this discussion. For many of us, the next step is to set an intention and make a commitment. This is a necessary step to create focus. Then make a plan and get started. Intention and commitment are the key to keeping that plan.

If you are physically capable, just start moving more in any way you find most fun and interesting and that feels good. Some may have reduced strength and flexibility or health issues that limit available movement. In this case, do whatever is available to you. Move your head, neck, arms, and fingers in all different directions. It’s even important to move our eyeballs in different directions or they too can lose flexibility. Even in a seated position, you can put on some good music on and shake your head and shoulders, wiggle your toes, and make movements to the beats, and get your hands and arms in the air too. For those who are able, really go for it! Remember that movement should feel good and be fun too. Make it social and include family and friends to enjoy and receive all the health benefits of more movement.

How good are you at being yourself?

That’s an interesting question. Brené Brown says, “Our sense of belonging can never be greater that our level of self acceptance.” But where does our sense of belonging come from? It seems like everywhere we turn we are bombarded with messages that we need to be more organized, be more fit, have tighter abs, eat healthier foods, have shinier hair, have a more balanced life, be a better parent, look younger, work harder, and it goes on and on and on. But really, who says? And what is the metric for better, healthier, shinier, and nicer? And more importantly, what are these messages doing for our kids?

I wish I had the answers to these questions, but I believe they are important ones to consider and discuss them. When I was younger I loved reading magazines and keeping up with the latest fashion and make-up styles and such. Then came a time a few years ago that I just felt icky when I read those headlines and magazine articles. They made me feel unworthy and killed any good sense I had of myself. What happened?

It’s a tightrope walk undoubtedly. We better ourselves by making goals and staying committed to improve our lives and ourselves. And sometimes I think our goals get distorted too. It’s so easy to strive for something that doesn’t exist and that can get confusing for adults and young people alike. A friend of mine went to a workshop with her teenage daughter. They ended up looking through women’s magazines cutting out anything that they liked and were inspired by – lips, eyes, shoes, clothes, hairstyles, and more. At the end, each girl had a collage of her “perfect image”. The problem was that the end result was the eyes of one person, the hairstyle of another, lips, butt, and fashion style all from unique individuals. That one person who has it all does not exist. It’s more than a good reminder to reflect on the nature of our goals and whether they are outwardly or inwardly oriented.

To make matters worse, we tend to focus on faults more than talents. This is a deficit perspective and can become a dangerous obstacle blocking the way of living to our highest potentials. What happens when a child has all A’s in school (even an A+ in English or History) and a B or C in math for example. Many kids in high school will be referred to a math tutor because they need to get good grades in math. I heard a story recently that put it all into a new perspective. Take the same story and apply it to sports. Imagine a kid that’s really good at basketball and just ok at baseball. Do we go out and get extra baseball coaching? No! We provide enrichment and support to make him or her even better and in pursuit of excellence at basketball. I love this example because it really demonstrates how perverse our perspective and dialogue can be. Where are you putting energy into deficits rather than building on what you are already good at? And if you have children, what does that dialogue look like? It’s so easy to compare ourselves to an unrealistic ideal rather than accepting and celebrating what we are really good at and acknowledging growth and improvements at our own personal pace.

Our son has had significant behavioral and mental health challenges. He does not fit into any of the boxes available to children in our “tidy” society. I have researched and tried so many things to “help” him and support him. He’s my son, I’ll do anything for him and I want the best possible outcome for him. But what if we are all trying to hard to make him “fit”? It’s a question that I ask myself often. It’s not easy when everything around me is screaming that kids are supposed to be a certain way and it must be the family’s fault or the parenting or lack of discipline or whatever when a child doesn’t turn out to the perceived metric of success. Maybe kids like this are delivering an important message to us. My son is good at being himself. And the best question I can ask him each day is, “How were you your best self today?” That also means that when some kind of incident happens, I need to experience it with a different lens. I’ll be honest here, I miss this mark A LOT. It’s so easy to default to being upset and getting back to “fixing” him. Then I realize that while the outburst was unpleasant (maybe even VERY unpleasant), if there hasn’t been one for a few weeks, then that may actually be a huge improvement from 5-6 times per day a few months ago. It all depends on which perspective I take.

When I flip the lens back to myself, I am also guilty of measuring myself to idealistic expectations and values that are not my own and that have been imposed on me. I stopped reading those magazines that give me the message over and over again that I am not good enough. I’m learning what I’m really good at and investing in getting better. This requires a lot of grace and compassion. There are endless opportunities to practice that too! The best way I have found to move forward is to set an intention to be my best self each day with the realization that my best self will be different from day to day. So instead of all the other questions we can reflect on and measure ourselves at the end of the day, maybe the best one is, “how were you your best self today?”

Summer Solstice Rituals

When this is published , I will be backpacking in the Alaskan wilderness. And lucky for me, our trip will be during the summer solstice, the longest day of the year. In Alaska and other places in the northern latitudes, that’s a very long day with the days often blurring into one another! I couldn’t be more excited about this trip that we have been planning for a while now.

The summer solstice represents a time to be open and receive all the goodness that the universe has to offer. We celebrate the abundance of light to extinguish our doubts and fears and burdens. It’s a time to open our senses and notice possibilities that we may not have noticed before. The day marks the halfway point of the year, making it a perfect time to for a mid-year reflection to assess if we are heading in the right direction or if we somehow ended up on an unexpected detour. It’s a time to consider what hasn’t been working and release it; and a time to decide what we want more of in our lives and declare the intention to create just that.

The solstice is believed to have been observed by humans as early as the Stone Age, and many cultures continue to celebrate the occasion with rituals such as special meals, bonfires, dances, and songs.

You may already have your own tradition. I was in Sweden one year and we ate herring and potatoes and had big picnics during solstice week, which is also known as midummer. There are big events at Stonehenge and other Pagan sites each year to commemorate the day. If you don’t have on already, I encourage you to consider starting or trying out a Summer Solstice Ritual for yourself this year. Fill yourself with the gift of abundant light and energy that this extraordinary day offers to us each year.

Here are a few ideas:

  • Take some time this week to acknowledge everything that you have done so far this year and have gratitude.
  • Reflect and anything you are ready to release in your life. Write it down on a piece of paper and then burn the piece of paper.
  • Host a gathering with friends and experience the positive energy increasing.
  • Light some candles and take a bath. This is a great bath recipe for summer solstice:
    • 1 cup Epsom salts
      1 cup Himalayan pink Salts
      1 cup sea salt
      3 drops wild orange essential oil
      3 drops neroli essential oil
      2 drops ginger essential oil
      2 drops basil essential
      1 drop clove essential oil
      Soak in warm bath in a quiet peaceful environment for 20 minutes or more. Take deep breaths and visualize releasing your burdens and receiving joy and love and all the gifts of the universe for added effect.
  • Watch the sunrise and spend as much time as possible outside basking in the warmth and the light from the sun.

What other rituals do you have? Please post in the comments and we will all add to the list of possibilities.

Happy Solstice!

 

 

The real reason you (and I) eat the whole bag of chips

Summer is here and so are the graduation parties and picnics and camping trips and the chips. We’ve all been there, experienced the lure of the chip bowl, the can of Pringles in the mini-mart when we stop for gas. We make a promise to ourselves to eat just one… or maybe two. There’s even the tagline, “Betcha can’t eat just one?” Inevitably, the battle is lost as soon as it starts and with seconds we are grabbing two or more chips per bite. What’s going on here?

I always thought that the reason for this was because of that addictive mix of salt and fat specially formulated to keep me eating. That is true to a degree, but thanks to Mark Schatzner and his fantastically researched book, The Dorito Effect, there’s so much more to it. Now that I really understand what was going on, I have changed the way that I experience chips and other processed foods.

Biologically, we are wired to eat with the sole purpose of nourishing our bodies with specific nutritional contents that come from food. Schatzker explains the idea of nutritional wisdom and cites studies with small children who self-select the perfect nutrition for themselves each day within an assortment of real food including fruits, vegetables, meat, organ meat, nuts, and eggs. Our nutritional needs actually vary from day to day depending on sleep, exercise, environmental exposure, growth, and other variables. These children did just that, they ate more protein during growth spurts, more foods with vitamin C when infected with a virus, and more cod liver oil for a vitamin D deficiency. It’s important that we are exposed to a variety of foods with distinct nutritional profiles to cover all the bases. In a natural setting, these studies show that we are more likely to eat more of a food that fulfills a nutritional deficiency. I can remember for myself, when I was on the swim team in high school and working as a lifeguard, I had cravings for foods that were high in potassium. I also suffered from an occasional irregular heart palpitation. It seems likely that I needed the potassium as en electrolyte given the amount of time was I was at the pool and my poor diet at the time.

In nature, nutrition comes from the flavor, so we tend to crave flavor that nourishes us. Once we receive the nourishment, we associate that flavor with the feeling. However, there are some problems that come with flavor in the modern world. First of all, we are dealing with the dilution of flavor and nutritional content in everything from tomatoes to cauliflower, to eggs, milk, and chicken because for the last several decades, they have been bred and produced to grow bigger and to have uniformity of appearance to appeal to consumers. While some food may have become cheaper, this has come with a huge and often unseen nutritional cost. Schatzker cites research by Donald Davis who worked at the Biochemical Institute at the University of Texas. He compared modern produce with that from the 1950s and was alarmed to discover that kale of 1950s had twice as much riboflavin as modern varieties, and 1950s asparagus had a whopping three times more vitamin C to name just a couple of examples. Davis sums up that we are getting more carbohydrates and water in our plants nowadays. That in itself starts to explain a lot about our modern eating habits.

Technology developed in the 1970s that allowed imitation flavors to really take off in popularity. This was great news for food producers who no longer had to procure expensive flavor ingredients and worry about shelf life. Schatzker recounts the story about how this was especially pivotal for vanilla  was sourced in Madagascar. In the mid-1970s the newly formed Marxist government destroyed much of the precious harvest in order to drive up the global price. This left large companies scrambling for a source of vanilla for their recipes.  Thanks to the new technology, gas chromatography, vanilla and any other flavor could now be produced. This became the perfect solution to flavoring for the packaged foods industry. Interestingly, if artificial flavor is imitating something natural, it’s allowed to be called a natural flavor. It is so easy to be fooled. Our bodies have this nutritional wisdom, which is connected to flavors, which in nature are connected to nutrition. That leads us back to the bag of chips.

When we bite into that first chip, it may be salsa or onion or cheese or BBQ flavored. If there were little or no flavor, it is very likely that you would eat one and that would be enough. Or it may be used as a vessel for cheese, salami, avocado, tuna, salsa, and other real foods. The “flavors” added to chips and crackers are eliminating the need to add something real, something with nutritional value. In search of nutritional fulfillment, we keep eating and eating and eating. We eat the whole bag of chips because it literally contains zero nutrition. Contrast this with organic broccoli, heirloom tomatoes, or grass-fed beef. Sometimes we eat more and sometimes we eat less based on feedback from our bodies once we have begun to eat. Just like those small children we too have the mechanism of nutritional wisdom. Unfortunately, nutritional wisdom can only function properly with real food. Remember the studies comparing food from the 1950s? Even with real food we eat more that we used to because it takes more to get the same amount of micronutrients. Micronutrients are the vitamins, minerals, and amino acids that occur naturally in real food. By breeding for size and speed of growth, much nutrition and flavor has been lost. We need to guide ourselves back to the inherent nutritional wisdom that we possess. We can do this by seeking out heirloom and organic varieties and most importantly seeking out the best real flavor in real foods!

The next time you are tempted by the bag of Doritos or other chips, consider the trade off. While I rarely eat chips anymore, I do enjoy the crisp, crunchy, saltiness of a good chip. I even like the flavors. However, aware of the nutritional factor, I am mindful to include other quality real foods at the same time so I will receive some nourishment and I won’t end up having consumed the entire bag!

Jigsaw Puzzles and Life

I really enjoy doing jigsaw puzzles. I don’t do them nearly as much as I would like to, but once or twice a year, I dump a bunch of pieces onto a card table and give it a go. A few weeks ago I started on new one of a beautiful peacock and all the colorful and intricate feathers. This time I became very observant and engaged in the process of completing the puzzle. I was surprised by the lessons that came from it that are applicable to most things in life.

Observe and consider a plan. From the beginning, it can be overwhelming to see the 500-1500 pieces scattered around on the table. Some of them upside down and everything all mixed up. Life feels like that sometimes with all the pieces scattered and nothing seems to make sense. The only thing to do at that point is to observe and start to consider a plan. The first step is to get all the pieces turned right side up. Once that happens there is a simple set of steps that takes place until the puzzle is complete. Click here to see my steps to solving a jigsaw.

Trial and error leads to success. I like to think I’ll sit down like a boss, have a look at the pieces, and then be able to easily place them in the proper places. This never happens. In fact, the more trial and error that I’m willing to do at each session, the more progress I’m likely to make in the long run. It is necessary to find out where the pieces don’t fit in order to eventually figure out where they do belong.

Progress is progress no matter how small. I work in 5-25 minute chunks when passing through the dining room or when I am in transition of activities or waiting for the dinner to bake in the oven. Sometimes it all goes smoothly and easily and lots of pieces get connected and just seem to fall into place. Other times, I just can’t see it. I just can’t find the right pieces and nothing that I try works. That is so frustrating and then, I spend longer than expected trying more and more pieces. It’s just at those points that I get the greatest satisfaction from fitting just one single piece into place. That’s when it’s all been worth it for that session and I can now move on.

Allow others to pitch in. While this remains mostly my project, it does attract other members of the family as well. There tend to be few days that are super busy and I feel discouraged that I haven’t been having any sessions at all and my progress has come to a standstill. I am very pleased to finally get back to it and discover that someone has sat down and worked though an entire section that has alluded me. In fact, it gives me a huge boost in motivation and makes me feel both connected and supported.

We have all the right pieces, but their placements may be yet to be revealed. For a more complicated puzzle it requires looking at a lot of detail of each piece: the size of the piece, the orientation of the shapes, and the colors on the surface. At some point it actually becomes possible to notice a piece upon scanning and pick it up and put it perfectly into the exact spot that is belongs. When that happens, it feels oh so good! Interestingly, the last 782 times that I scanned that same piece I had no idea where that specific piece belonged. This is partially because the more time I spend with the puzzle the more intimately I know each piece and its unique possibilities. More importantly perhaps is the fact that placing certain pieces only becomes possible after other parts of the puzzle are complete to reveal the placement for the pieces to come. If I were to become stuck on finding a spot for one specific piece, it would be impossible to finish. It makes me wonder what things in my life I may be trying to force into place when maybe I just need to be patient and work on what makes sense in the moment.

Unexpected things will happen. Someone may accidentally knock the table over causing much progress to be lost. A naughty member of the family may hide a few pieces and will eventually put them back. A sneaky piece may have been stuck in a folding of the box. A beverage could spill all over the whole thing. You get the idea. Unexpected can literally mean anything. The only thing to do at this point is keep at it. Do the detective work for the missing pieces, pick up the scattered pieces, clean up any other mess, and get back to it.

Effort will be required until the very end. As I continue to observe the process, I am nearly finished and I think that the end will be super easy and I will just coast through the final dozen pieces. That is far from the truth. The final pieces are the most mysterious and tricky. They require the closest look and the most manipulation as if they are teasing me with their cleverness. It requires that I focus on the purpose that I have to fulfill and have the tenacity to keep on working those pieces up until that last piece has been put into its place.

The pleasure is in the process. And alas, the puzzle is complete! It’s so satisfying; I pause and remain still, staring at the final product in all it’s glory that came together after several days and many, many sessions. I feel a sense of achievement and pride at the accomplishment. Surprisingly, there is an emptiness too, a mourning of a process that is complete. I leave the finished product on the table for a few days and whenever I walk by I stop to admire it. Underneath it all, I would be just as pleased to sit down and work through some pieces and make some progress. With that desire, I clean it up and start on the next project, a new process, and new lessons.

Welcome to Restorative Life!

Hello and welcome! I’m excited to be sharing with you as I launch this new space! This blog is all about Restoratives for the Body, Mind, and Spirit: Restoratives that strengthen us when we feel weak and build us up to blossom into our best expression of ourselves. It’s about learning to be mindful of what we allow into our lives, our bodies, and our minds, and the role that our values, relationships, community, diet, sleep, stress, movement, mindfulness and more have towards the goal of that optimal expression. It’s about always learning and reflecting and exploring and pushing our limits!

I transitioned from my career as a teacher and instructional coach to become a health coach and wellness advocate because conventional health care wasn’t working for us. At its root, our family found healing of physical and mental limitations when we changed our diet from what would be considered a standard American diet to a paleo/primal diet. We eliminated all sugars, processed foods, grains, and legumes. We discovered so many metrics of our health that improved including reduced need for psychiatric medication of our then 11 year old son, more balanced energy throughout the day, more regulated moods, improved blood cholesterol numbers, and better sleep to name a few.   Our experience has inspired me to share what we have discovered along the way so that others can experience the same benefits too.

Just to be clear, we found a lot of things that didn’t work before we made the big dietary shift. In fact, we had been through a lot of traumatic experiences related to our son’s mental and behavior health and were truly astounded that not a single therapist or doctor in 5 years had suggested that we try changing the diet. At some point I heard about some different diets and checked out a book about the Paleo Diet from the library. I think I read about long enough to see what I would have to eliminate (bread and pasta and even beans!) and promptly returned it. This time was different though, we had tried so many things to stabilize our son who had been on medications for bipolar disorder, had been hospitalized , and was clearly not thriving. This time I devoured a great deal of research about what to expect and why those changes were important. With a lot of scientific evidence I became convinced that this was an important step for us and that we had to follow the plan consistently to really know what results would be possible.

When we started on the restorative part of the journey, I had already taken a break from my job to be available to manage his many appointments and to stay home with him when he wasn’t able to go to school. So I focused on 2 things. First, I continued to read voraciously to learn as much as possible about paleo, primal, ketogenic, low-carb diets, and ancestral health. Second, I dedicated myself to preparing meals without pasta, rice, beans, bread, flour, and more. We noticed results in the first six weeks. My husband and son had both lost more than ten pounds, my son’s cholesterol numbers were no longer in the danger zone, in fact, his triglyceride count when from 157 to 80 during that initial period (those of you familiar with triglyceride numbers will know that is significant). The only change during that time was the new diet.

At that point I knew a few things to be true. I knew not only that this new way of eating was working for us, but also that we were in it for the long haul. This was not going to be a 30 day program to endure before going back to the same ole habits. For the first several months, I focused on maintaining our diet to continue to get the benefits. After several years of disruptive behavior and outbursts, it was a huge relief to have something that was working. I menu planned, shopped, chopped, cooked, and washed all those dishes to provide my family with real nourishment. Every week was full of new recipes. I learned to make riced cauliflower and bone broth and homemade mayonnaise and other sauces without sugar or wheat or soy or canola oil for example. I mostly tweaked the familiar favorite recipes because I really didn’t want to rock the boat and end up back where we had started.

As I gained clarity, I yearned for more restaurants to ease my burden and serve food that would serve us better. It’s amazing how far we have come from the original purpose. The word restaurant comes from the French word restaurer which means to restore. Restoratives are historically referred to as broths and soups and stews that restore loss strength possibly due to illness, injury, or traveling. Throughout history, food consumed has been nourishing and given strength to us humans. In the last century, and specifically in recent decades with industrialization and massive profiteering, we have experienced something unknown before in human history: our food supply is not only not nourishing and restoring our strength, it is actually making us sick and weak due to the inflammatory nature of processed foods. Diet is linked to quality of sleep, energy levels, alertness, mood, weight management, mood regulation, digestion, respiratory wellness, skin irritation, blood pressure, cholesterol, cognitive performance, stamina, immunity, and more.

As I have experienced this first hand, both for myself and my family, I am now on a mission to learn about nutrition and understand it in the context of biology, history, politics, media, and culture. We live under a predominant medical model of prescribing medications any symptoms that come up. While this model works well in emergency medicine and for acute symptoms, it is less successful for more superfluous health situations. Long term exposure to pharmaceuticals often leads to a myriad of side effects leaving us in a state far from our authentic selves and even farther from the very best expression of ourselves. At this point, we are no longer being restored. And just to clarify clarify a couple of definitions that were shared at the Paleo f(x) 2017 conference in Austin, TX :

  • A substance that interferes with normal system function is a drug
  • A substance that restores normal function is a nutrient.

It’s very easy to get caught up in potential benefits of various treatments and medications, but when side effects are creating problems where none existed previously it may be time to reconsider which path is the best one moving forward.

This blog is about informing you, my audience, of that variety of options that are available to you to restore your whole wellness: body, mind, and spirit.

We are all travelers on this life path and daily restoration is required to keep on moving. A lot of words that have been related to wellness have become diluted and there’s a lot of confusion. Take a minute to reflect on the following works, what they mean to you, and how you hear them used in your community and in the press: Healthy – Diet – Fat – Exercise. We will be here all day if I take the time to unpack each of those in this entry, but know that my aim is to provide some clarity on each of these and also support and lead each of you closer to your best self expression. That’s going to be different for each of us because, guess what? We are different. Our eyes are different colors, our noses are different shapes, and the same diet and number of days will result in different outcomes for each one of us. This is about a way of thinking, it’s about really trying something over a period of time and assessing the results. Some changes can take 6 or 9 months or even longer to achieve. How will we ever get there when being bombarded with quick fix messages everywhere we turn? It’s like the tortoise and the hare and the commitment to make attentive and reflective progress rather than focus only on speed. Slow and steady wins the race.

Thankfully, it’s not all doom and gloom. There is good nourishing food to be had and it’s not likely to be found in a package. Many medications will relieve our symptoms in the short term and sometimes we need that, but they may also be missing the element of healing and restoring. On the flip side, there’s a lot of wonderful wisdom that has been preserved and many people making a living by supporting others on a restorative journey. My goal is to share new ideas, perspectives, products, and natural solutions that will lead us all to being and living our best lives in our fullest energy and vitality.

 

-My son Owen on a trip to The Giant’s Causeway in Northern Ireland in 2011.